Confident men get all the girls so how can you be one?
Posted on July 13, 2007
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It is well known that women are attracted to strong and confident men. The alpha males if you will. The reason for this attraction is evolutionary. Nature has taught women to select the stronger men in the group because they make good providers for food and protection; and of course, strong men are more likely to have good genes which they can pass on to their children.
Today we no longer have to hunt for our food or fight against hungry animals that want to make a tasty snack of us. However, women are still attracted to the stronger more confident men at an subconscious level and will continue to do so for a long time; it takes nature a long while to change primal instincts. So, where I am getting at is that if you want women to like you then you have to show a certain degree of confidence.
Unfortunately, for most men this sounds easier than it’s done.
The problem is that men are basically stupid. There is no reason to hide this; we all know it and all women know it as well. Being stupid does not prevent us from being confident or getting laid for that matter. The problem with our idiocy is that it makes it difficult for us to know how to be confident.
Most men confuse confidence with being a complete and total asshole to other men and women. Insulting other people and being loud and violent does not show confidence. In fact, it shows that you are just the biggest idiot in the room. Many men also try to hide their inadequacies by being as loud as possible. Women know that all the yelling is nothing more than a show and they don’t fall for it. Trust me!
So, how does one show confidence without being a complete turd?
It is not that difficult really. You just have to be the strong, silent type who knows when to say something and never, ever, puts people down for their weaknesses or makes fun of others. That doesn’t mean that you should be a complete pussy either. Don’t go around being all nice to everyone in all possible circumstances. If someone insults you or your girlfriend then make it known to them that you will not put up with this. Raise your voice just enough to be assertive but don’t yell your head off. And take a small step towards your opponent but don’t go right up to his face. Words are stronger than punches and a witty reply sometimes may be the better choice and you won’t lose any points either. In fact, women like smart, witty men just as much as they like confident men.
Be confident but not an asshole and you will get any girl you want, guaranteed!
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absolutley right man,and this goes around in the whole globe from the begining of the creation,she likes the man who is confident to make herself more confident,and as u said being alpha is a way of life
and u have to beat her,dont think bad of me but its a nature of women to be beaten not to be a man ,i mean beating in certain circumstances and over certain places too,
Mahmoud, thank for the comment! However, I would never endorse hitting women. Ever! This is the same as men trying to be tough by yelling all the time. It is not a smart thing to do and unless you find yourself a completely dysfunctional woman that will put up with this and stay with you, you will never impress women. Be nice to women!